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Wish you knew your neighbours better? Get started this weekend with Neighbours Day, Saturday 17 October.
 
WIN! Add a comment and be in to win one of five groovy t-shirts

Being neighbourly is one of the best things we can do for our own and our family's wellbeing, wealth and happiness.

Living in a friendly connected neighbourhood can bring us loads of benefits—for our health, our state of mind, and our quality of life. Like the old Chinese saying puts it, “Distant relatives are not better than next-door neighbours.”

It’s a virtuous circle. The more comfortable we feel in the area where we live, the more active we’re likely to be in it. The more people are out and about in the neighbourhood, the safer our streets are for our kids during the day and the better the security at night. The more we’re tending our verges and front gardens, walking the dog and cycling to school and shops instead of roaring about in cars, the healthy we all are and the quieter, tidier and less polluted our streets become.

Increased neighbourliness contributes to a better quality of life and a greater sense of pride in where you live. It means having people nearby to call on for babysitting, carpooling and to feed the cat when you’re away. It can even improve property values.

Get a little neighbourly and win!

Start by getting to know some of your neighbours this weekend with Neighbours Day 2009, a new day being launched on Saturday 17 October by Lifewise. Add your comments and suggestions below and go in to win one of five groovy t-shirts.

There are loads of easy things to try:

  • Say hello to five people in your street this weekend.
  • Bake a batch of cupcakes and invite your neighbours and their children over.
  • Mow the grass verge all the way across your neighbour’s frontage as well as yours.
  • Offer to take your neighbour’s dog for a walk. 

Check out the website for more ideas on how to connect with others on your street.

Want to know more? Read the latest issue of Good magazine, on sale now, for 21 ways to spruce up your street.

TURNING STREETS INTO NEIGHBOURHOODS

Want to know your neighbours better? You’re not alone. Eighty-one percent of Aucklanders are interested in getting to know their neighbours better, according to recent research by Colmar Brunton.

A recent BBC survey found that 22% of English people feel their neighbourhood has become less friendly in the past five years and other surveys suggest that between 4% and 8% didn’t know their neighbours at all. But these trends can be reversed, just by taking a few simple actions.

Lifewise is not organising a big event for Neighbours Day, rather its promoting the importance of neighbours, inspiring people to take the first steps and working with other groups to encourage people to get involved. The UK, Europe and Australia are now all promoting neighbourliness through initiatives like Neighbours Day.

With the support of lots of organisations across Tamaki Makaurau, Lifewise is taking the lead and encouraging all Aucklanders to mark a day on their calendar to knock on doors or lean over the fence and get to know their neighbours better. Saturday 17 October will be Auckland’s first official Neighbours Day, a celebration of neighbourliness and what Lifewise hopes will  herald the creation of more supportive, healthy and connected neighbourhoods across Auckland.

"We decided to build on the success of our work in the community and encourage all Aucklanders to start with one action on one day to foster friendships in their street,” says Lifewise Community Services General Manager John McCarthy. “Strong connections between neighbours create opportunities to make our neighbourhoods healthier, safer and more fun places to live.”

The philosophy of Neighbours Day is simple: the creation of a special day to recognise the folks we live next door can help strengthen and connect neighbourhoods across the city. Things like sharing a cuppa or hosting a neighbourhood barbie are easy ways to get the ball rolling. Kiwis are renowned for their hospitality, so this day is just another opportunity to spark some great neighbourhood connections.

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Pippa Coom
 
Wed October 14, 2009 @ 03:59 PM

My neighbours don't know if yet but they are all invited to a BBQ out the front of our place on Saturday evening (got to get organising!). The plan is to put up the Grey Lynn 2030 bunting that is available for street parties this summer and decorated the Grey Lynn Farmers Market so beautifully on the opening day.  Thank you Neighbours Day team for the inspiration.

Leao
summerbreeze00.blogspot.com
 
Wed October 14, 2009 @ 05:27 PM
Hey, Last year I wanted to know the neighbours on my street so I organised a garage sale and a bbq on the street reserve, it was also a good time to get neighbourhood support involved too, our local community got stuck in and we had tug of war and games for the kids, we are looking at doing this yearly and probably neighbours day sounds like a good time of year.  Great stuff Neighbour organisers.
elliot
 
Wed November 04, 2009 @ 04:02 PM
Neighbours, its funny, you live nextdoor to each other but barely see each other. You can live countries apart and communicate all day long with digi communication...
Emily
www.sustainabilityandthecity.com
 
Wed November 04, 2009 @ 05:58 PM
I think getting to know your neighbours is a great idea for security reasons. If your neighbours don't know you, they don't know if someone they see wandering around your property is there legitimately or not. If you know your neighbours, they're much more likely to question a suspicious-looking person they see on your property, or let you know about anything dodgy they've seen or heard in the neighbourhood while you've been away.
Samantha
 
Fri November 06, 2009 @ 04:45 PM
I think its a great idea to get to know your neighbours.
If you havent talked to them before just go over and introduce yourself. I done that now I am great friends with them :)

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